I didn’t rush to post this before Mother’s Day for a reason. Gifts for our moms—or anyone we love—should never feel forced or last-minute. Appreciation isn’t something you mark on a calendar. It’s something that can (and should) be shown at any time. And sometimes, the most thoughtful gift is the one that shows up unexpectedly, simply because you noticed something they needed.
My mom is up there in age. Due to a variety of factors, her discomfort is quite noticeable especially when she’s trying to sit upright. I can see her hunching getting worse. She always says she ok but we all know how our parents are. They grew up in times of hardship and have learned to never complain. It’s an admirable trait but if I can help just a little, I will . Of course, I need to give her space and time to adapt on her own time with what I’m trying to show her. There’s no point in forcing. That’s why I gave her a Bolstie--it's be such a big help for her around the house, not just in bed.
Fluffy Towels Over Clothes As Filler
Bolstie was designed as a travel pillow for long flights, but what makes it truly special is how versatile it is. It’s not just for planes—it’s for any seat, anywhere. And for my mom, who rarely flies but often watches TV in bed, Bolstie will give her the support she didn’t even realize she needed.
What makes it different from the usual neck pillow is that it’s adjustable and customizable. Most travel pillows uselessly wrap around your neck and they don’t help with posture but are great at making your neck hot & sweaty. Yeah… our moms would love that! Bolstie is different and versatile. Instead of stuffing it with clothes (which can be too heavy), I showed her how to fill it with two soft towels. This way, it stays light—under 2 lbs—and she can lift and adjust it easily.
I showed her all the various ways she can use it. Whatever feels right for her. I told her to keep it beside her in bed and use it to sit upright while she watches TV. It supports her lower back or neck, depending on how she positions it. When my auntie takes her out , she can use it in the car as her go-to comfort item.
A compact, washable travel pillow she can actually use
One of the best things about Bolstie is that it’s a compact travel pillow that fits in a personal item, but it’s just as useful at home. It doesn’t take up space, it’s fully machine-washable, and it can be customized to be as firm or as soft as she needs. That’s a level of control that most travel pillows don’t offer.
And because it’s not filled with foam or beads, it doesn’t collect dust, no weird smells, and no weight to strain her arms or shoulders. It’s thoughtful, it’s practical, and it’s personal.
The gift of comfort doesn’t need a holiday
Whether it’s for Mother’s Day, her birthday, or just because you noticed she’s been uncomfortable lately, Bolstie is a small way to show you care in a big way. If your mom is anything like mine, she won’t ask for comfort—but she’ll never stop appreciating it once she has it.
Let her relax, sit upright, and feel supported—anytime, anywhere.
